Reason #44: People Inadvertantly Hurt Your Feelings
After I ‘came out’ as a survivor of incest during my teen years (see Reason #43: Forced Visitation), there was some fallout to deal with. Needless to say, my dad’s side of the family stopped talking to...
View ArticleReason #236: My Husband
In my last post, I said that my husband had some game-changing news, but I was unable to say what it was because it was too painful. Well, here it is. My husband said that he thinks he is a female in...
View ArticleReason #242: Comparing myself to others
I have a cousin who is almost the same age as me. We were always pretty close to each other until puberty hit and then we got kind of distant, probably because I was afraid of males. But we always...
View ArticleReason #245: Don’t Share Your Pain with Fools
In my last post, I talked about how freeing it was to share my pain with someone who received our secrets with love and understanding. Feeling emboldened by the freeing of our secret, I decided to...
View ArticleReason # 246: We’ll Get Through This
The huz/(wife?) and I had to go to a wedding for a family member recently. Most of the people at the wedding didn’t know our unique situation. My mom and close family knew though. It was an...
View ArticleReason #253: Power over an ant
So, as my regular readers know, last week the fucking ants made a reappearance in my house. I, of course, couldn’t take it, so I made an appointment for the exterminator to come over (he knows us by...
View ArticleReason #292: Who’s Gonna Love You Now?
I was watching Glee tonight, and in this episode Coach Bieste made the wonderful decision to leave her abusive husband. In classic abuser fashion, he said “Who’s gonna love you now?”. After a slight...
View ArticleNot a reason, just an update
I haven’t posted in a while. The thing is, I got freaked out. I have been secretly keeping this blog for about 4 years now, and when I started it, it was because I had something to prove. I needed...
View Article
More Pages to Explore .....